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Day 105/365: First Day Back At Work

4.15.2015

Exactly one week ago, I was getting ready for our trip to Minneapolis.  It’s hard to believe how much stuff I did in the past seven days.  It also seems so amazing to me that we traveled to the Northern Mid-West and back to the Pacific Coast within a week.  It took months for the pioneers in covered wagons to cross the same terrain that we did.  But actually, when I stop to think about it, that in itself is really even more amazing.

I went back to work at the prison today and it was completely business as usual.  Luckily, I didn’t have to deal with any last-minute urgent referrals, emergencies, or difficult patients.  I did stay at my office until 6 PM, trying to finish the day’s progress notes and treatment plans and suicide risk evaluations.  When it got to be 6:00, I knew I had to pack it up.  Even though I cared about getting the job done, I also knew that the emotionally healthy thing to do was to go home and put the day behind me.

That’s another nice thing about taking vacations.  It helps to give you perspective on priorities and what really matters in life.


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Day 104/365: Last Day of This Mini Vacation

4.14.2015

I’ve been thinking a lot about our recent trip to Minneapolis and why I enjoyed it so much.  One reason was that I got to spend quality time with Sean, who I only see on my three-day weekends because during the week we live 150 miles apart.  (He’s in Ventura while I’m in Morro Bay.)  Another reason was that I got to meet and hang out with my longtime online pal Alisha.  It was so refreshing to bond with a female friend after all the time that I spend working among male inmates and male staff in a men’s prison.

Sean has said to me several times before:  “Working in the prison is changing your view of humanity.”  And it’s true.  When I’m out in the community, I view the world through the lens of someone who has seen the worst in human nature.  When Sean and I were riding on public transit through downtown Minneapolis, I couldn’t help thinking that it would be so easy for someone to jump on the light rail without paying, or deface the clean interior with graffiti, or snatch people’s cell phones out of their hands, or hold a gun to their face and demand their wallet and valuables.  These are the things that I know a person is capable of doing to another person, and I expect it to happen.

In Minneapolis, however, I kept noticing little things that showed me that people can still be inherently good.  On our first day walking through downtown, Sean and I started to cross the street and a taxi driver made a left-hand turn at the intersection and drove across our path.  There was still a lot of room in the crosswalk, so he didn’t exactly cut us off, but he held up a hand and meekly waved in apology.  That is something you will never see in Los Angeles.

Another time, I watched a college student running to catch the light rail before it pulled away from the station.  She quickly held her rail pass against the electronic detector, but in her hurry, the card didn’t scan and the machine beeped an alert.  Rather than keep going and just jumping on the rail, she stopped, turned back, and made sure that her barcode scanned properly, as a conscientious, decent human would do.  I was impressed.

Other things about the city impressed me.  From the airport to our hotel to downtown, we were easily able to get around by foot and public transportation.  If it had snowed heavily, we could have used the skyways to avoid much of the bad weather.  I didn’t see any graffiti or gang tagging on buildings or signs.  I noticed that there were plenty of trash and recycling receptacles around.  Having a chronic dry cough left over from my week with the flu, I was constantly unwrapping cough drops, but I didn’t have to keep the wrappers in my pocket for very long.  Pretty much on every block, I could expect to see a receptacle where I could toss my trash.  I also noticed that there was almost no litter on the ground, everywhere we went.  I’m pretty sure those ubiquitous trash and recycling receptacles had something to do with that.  Minneapolis is a city that takes care of its own.

Tomorrow I go back to work at the prison.  I’m hoping that there will be no crises or difficult patients to deal with, just so I can slowly ease back into that world and hold onto my renewed faith in humanity for a little while longer.


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Day 103/365: The Monday After Minneapolis

Last night there were thunderstorms right before we were scheduled to take off, so we sat in the plane and didn’t roll away from the gate for at least forty-five minutes.  I didn’t mind waiting, because I had my knitting and was able to turn the heel of my sock and start the ribbing for the cuff.

We had a fairly comfortable flight with no turbulence.  The plane landed at LAX at 11:20 PM Pacific Time, but my body and brain were still two hours ahead with Minneapolis time.  After waiting for my bag at baggage claim, we still had to catch the shuttle to long-term parking, pick up our car, and make the drive back to Ventura.  We didn’t get home until around 1:30 AM, I think.  I’m not sure, because the minute I walked in the door, I went straight to bed.

Today I had 150 miles more to travel to my final destination, our house in Morro Bay.  Then I had a handful of errands to run, including going to the accountant to pick up our completed tax paperwork so that we can meet the April 15 deadline.

I meant to take photos of my current sock in progress, but I didn’t have time for that today.  So instead, I will share with you pictures of the statues that we looked at yesterday when we were in downtown Minneapolis and in downtown St. Paul.  With all the traveling and miles covered since then, I can’t believe that I took these photos just yesterday.

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The Mary Tyler Moore statue in downtown Minneapolis.

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Charlie Brown and his dog Snoopy at a park in downtown St. Paul.

Charlie Brown, his dog Snoopy, and their pal Sean.

Charlie Brown, his dog Snoopy, and their pal Sean.

Lucy and Schroeder.

Lucy and Schroeder.

Linus and Sally.

Linus and Sally.

Linus and Sally and their pal Sean.

Linus and Sally and their pal Sean.

Woodstock, Marcie, and Peppermint Patty.

Woodstock, Marcie, and Peppermint Patty.

Sean blocking Peppermint Patty's kick.

Sean and Peppermint Patty.

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Woodstock, Marcie, Peppermint Patty, and their pal Sean.

 


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Day 102/365: Last Day in Minneapolis

4.12.2015

Sean and I are not vegetarians, but we generally try to eat on the healthier end of the diet spectrum.  This morning we had breakfast at the Hard Times Cafe, which serves vegan and vegetarian food.  It was way better than anything we would have gotten at Applebee’s, which is just outside our hotel.

We’re now back in the hotel room, and I am writing this post to make sure I complete the day’s entry.  We have to check out at noon, but our flight isn’t until 8:40 this evening.  So we’re going to explore the city by foot and by light rail after we check out, and then we’ll have to head to the airport two hours before our flight, and then we have a three-and-a-half-hour flight, and then we have to drive the 60 miles from Los Angeles back to Ventura, and then Sean has to go back to work tomorrow.  Good thing Monday is my regular day off.

We have a couple of things we plan to do this afternoon while we’re out and about.  Sean wants to go find more Peanuts statues; we already found one of Lucy.  I want to see the Mary Tyler Moore statue, which I believe is located around the area where she was filmed throwing her blue tam o’shanter in the air for the opening credits of The Mary Tyler Moore Show.  If I lived here in Minneapolis, I would knit a blue tam and slip it onto the statue late at night.  But since I’m already thinking of coming back next year, I could knit a statue-sized one when I get back home and bring it with me next time.  Something tells me, though, that I wouldn’t be the first one to have come up with that idea.


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Day 101/365: 3rd Day in Minneapolis

4.10.2015

One of the reasons I enjoy knitting socks is that they are portable and you can take one with you almost anywhere.  Like when you are sitting at a booth at the AWP Conference, for example.

Today was the last day of the conference.  I spent some time at the booth, and then Alisha and her family picked me up at the convention center and she and I got to talk and have lunch and hang out as friends do.  It was as if we’d known each other forever.

Tomorrow is our last day in Minneapolis.  So far, I’ve had nothing but positive experiences here.  I’d always heard about Minneapolis being a cool city, and it’s true.  I’m already thinking about coming back next year.


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Day 97/365: So Close to Being Done

This is a pair of nearly finished socks.  I would already be done with both of them, except that I decided to go back and rip out the cuff of the first sock.

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To refresh your memory, here is a photo of the first sock before I ripped out that cuff.  Even though the sock was done and I could have just left it alone, I didn’t like the way the ribbing started too high up on the leg.  It created a weird bulgy effect when I tried on the sock.

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So I ripped out the cuff in order to adjust the length of stockinette and ribbing.  Now I am trying to match the cuffs to each other and hoping both socks will be about the same length.  The stripes don’t match up at all, but I’m beyond caring about that.  I just want to make sure I get these done before Minneapolis.  And in a few days, I’ll tell you why, I promise.

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Day 96/365: Prepping for the Week

4.6.2015

I mentioned before that Sean and I will be going to Minneapolis this week.  We’ll be attending the AWP Conference at the Minneapolis Convention Center and flying out of LAX on Thursday morning.  Which means that I will be working only two days this week:  tomorrow and Wednesday, and after I put in my 10-hour day on Wednesday, I’ll be leaving San Luis Obispo and driving the 150 miles back down to the Ventura homestead, in order to get on the road to Los Angeles first thing Thursday morning and make our flight.  Wednesday and Thursday are going to be loooong days, I already know.

I spent today doing the laundry, packing, and trying to remember everything I will need for the trip.  Knitting helps me think, and I was able to finish this sock.  With all the traveling ahead of me this week, I should be finishing at least another pair of socks.  Thank goodness they’re so portable.


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Day 94/365: Just Another Typical Saturday

4.4.2015

Sean and I were meeting a friend for lunch in San Luis Obispo.  As usual, he was all ready to go while I had changed my mind and was putting on a different blouse at the last minute.

“Are we just going to lunch, or did you plan on doing other stuff while we’re out?” he called down the stairs.

“No,” I hollered from the closet.  “We’re just going to lunch.”

“I don’t believe you,” he said.  “I’m bringing a book, just in case.”

Which just goes to show what twenty years in a relationship with me has taught him.


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Day 93/365: Friday Morning Cake

4.3.2015

In order to get into the prison, you first have to go through the Gatehouse, where you must show your state employee I.D. to a correctional officer.  If you are bringing any bags or items into the facility, you have to set them down on the counter and the C.O. looks through them and asks you if you are carrying any cell phones, electronics, or other contraband.

Today when I got to work, I walked into the Gatehouse with a woman who was carrying a large bakery box.  She and I set down our lunch bags to be inspected.  She also placed her bakery box on the counter next to her bag.

The C.O. looked through our bags and then turned to her.  “Ma’am,” he said, “could you open the box?”

The woman was a warm, agreeable person who looked exactly like someone who would be bringing baked goods for her co-workers on a Friday morning.  She carefully loosened the lid of the box and lifted it slowly to reveal a round, chocolate-frosted cake.  “Happy Birthday” was piped across the top of the cake in red icing.  It looked yummy.  I suddenly wanted a slice of that cake.

You could tell the C.O. thought the same thing.  And the way he played it off was pretty funny.  He said, deadpan, “I’m going to need to cut it open.”  Like there could be a file baked in that cake.

The woman patted her pockets and said, “Oh, darn!  I don’t have anything to cut it with.”

“That’s okay,” he said.  “I’ll just put my finger in it.”

Then they both laughed, and she put the lid back on the cake.

It was a pleasant way to start a Friday morning going in to work at a prison.


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Day 92/365: The Other Reason Why I Stopped Knitting Socks For a While

After leaving work early yesterday to go home sick, I knew I would not be very popular among my colleagues if I showed up for work today.  So I called in sick and spent the day resting and breathing through my mouth, because apparently now my flu symptoms have revamped into a cold with a stuffed-up nose.

You may remember that I was knitting this sock a few weeks ago:

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I was making it for my old college roommate Kim.  She told me what size shoe she wore, and she was going to send an outline of her foot to me.  In the meantime, I kept merrily knitting along.  I even turned the heel of the sock without waiting for Kim’s foot outline to arrive.

Then a couple of things happened on the same day.

First, I accidentally stepped on one of the sock knitting needles and broke it in half.  I didn’t have any other circulars in the same size, so I had to go online and order a replacement.

Second, I took Kim’s foot outline that had just arrived in the mail, and I glued the piece of paper to a piece of cardboard.  I waited for the glue to dry, and I cut around the outline of her foot.  Then I took the nearly finished sock and slid it onto the cardboard foot template.  The sock stretched tightly across the width of the flat cardboard, which told me one thing:  I had knitted too narrow a sock for my friend’s three-dimensional foot.  And also, it was a little too short.

It is a good thing that the neighbors on either side of my house are retired senior citizens who are slightly hard of hearing, because I spent the next few minutes screaming in frustration.

After I calmed down (one day later), I decided I would set that sock aside and save it for someone else with a narrower foot.  I couldn’t bear to think of unraveling the whole thing.  I figured that it would be easy enough to go on eBay and just purchase another skein of the same yarn and start over.

I went to eBay, typed in “Lion Brand Sock-Ease Yarn Red Hots” and quickly found a whole slew of listings.  I selected one that was listed for a Buy-It-Now and completed the purchase.  I waited several more days.  My new, intact knitting needles arrived.  The Lion Brand Sock-Ease Yarn in Red Hots arrived.

And this is what I got:

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Yes– same color, different dye lot!!!

I checked the labels multiple times and even held them together to compare.  My eyes were not deceiving me.  Both were indeed skeins of “Red Hots” sock yarn.  Except one was black and orange, while the other one was red and pink and orange.

I knew Kim had fallen in love with that pink and orange yarn.  I knew she would be crushed not to have her socks in those colors.  I couldn’t disappoint her.  I had to unravel the first sock and start over.

So being a good friend, I did, and this time I tried to knit the new sock a little wider than the first one.  And this time I guess I was paying more attention to the width of the sock rather than the length of it, because by the time it occurred to me that I needed to start the increases for the gusset, I realized I’d made the foot too long.  The sock needed about an inch and a half unraveled from the bottom.

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Augh! This sock would fit Sean, not Kim!

So it was at that point that I quit.  I didn’t want to work on that sock for a long time.  I switched over to crocheting.  And that whole sorry story of that sock is partly what made me stop knitting.  (Look at that:  alliteration.)

Anyway, I think enough time has passed that I’ve forgiven the sock and feel ready to start a fresh relationship with it.

At least it didn’t give me the flu.